What Do You Want? (Motivation)

So many times, I have come across many people who come to me to help them because they do not know what they should be doing? They say things like: “Should I be doing this or that” or “go this way or that way”?  By God’s grace I have been able to help many based on what my own coach showed me many years ago…..

So, when I get this question of “help me”, I still end up having to ask, “What do you want” because sincerely, if I do not know what you need help with, I can’t help you. That is the truth!  And nobody can help you if you do not know what you want. This is the honest truth. It is okay not to be sure or be clear about what you want but you MUST have an idea of what is it you want.

Today on Motivation for Monday, I will be sharing TIPS on how to know what you want so you can live a meaningful, fulfilling and purposeful life.

 

What Price Will You Pay For PURPOSE? ( Motivation)

I attended the Excel Women conference in London about 8days ago and sitting down in that conference, I couldn’t help but think about the price I paid to attend that conference. Not necessarily the monetary aspect of things but going out of my way to actually attend the conference. We had a family holiday planned so I went to England first for the conference and then back to Ireland and then back again on the road again with the family. It was a lot to deal with but hey, I did it. #Notcomplainingjust thankfulthatIcould.

As I sat down there at the conference with about 150+ women, I couldn’t but notice how expectant, “charged” and enthusiastic the women in there were, waiting to learn, connect and “fellowship” with one another. Today, on Motivation for Monday, I want to encourage you on what I call, what price will you pay for purpose?

 

 

Audacity to Go After Your Dreams (Motivation)

3How will it make you feel if you take a bold step and go after the life you want? How would it make you feel if after thinking about something, you just don’t stop there but go ahead and make that thing happen for yourself? How excited would it be for you if right before your very eyes, what you have always dreamed of comes to pass? For example, pass that exam, launch that business, move to another city, ask that girl or boy out or whatever it is it you want? How would that make you feel?

Today on Motivation for Monday, I am writing to encourage you on what I call, “Audacity to Go After Your Dreams”

 

 

Your Mind, Your Body, Your Soul (Motivation)

The mind, the body and soul are 3 interlinked parts. One does not function without the other. When all 3 are cared for, we live a more fulfilling life and are happier. See, out of your mind is where everything starts – whether good or bad. And your body is the carrier of all things that comes from your mind and then your soul is the receiver of what your mind and body say.

Today, on motivation for Monday, I am writing to encourage you on the importance of caring for the mind, the body and the soul. Let’s check it out……….

 

Fixed Goal with Flexible Path (Motivation for Monday)

A couple of months ago, I shared a blog titled FOCUS where I encouraged you to Follow One Course Until Successful. I am not changing my mind today about the tips I shared in that post but I am here to tell you today that while it is important to follow one course until successful (FOCUS), it is also important to recognise that we must have a VERY OPEN mind for us to be able to succeed in all areas of our lives. Let’s check out today’s motivation for Monday

 

You Can Do This (Motivation for Monday)

In the past couple of weeks, I received many messages than I would normally get. When I read through all these messages and met up with some of the amazing people who wrote to me, I can conclude that a lot of people want more for their lives, want to grow, want to contribute to the society and economy at large, people want to use their gifts to help others and in turn fulfill their own purpose. Today’s blog will encourage someone who is on the cross roads of whether or not to go ahead and start working on the huge burden and desires of their hearts.

 

Tall Girl Guide for Choosing & Wearing Mini Dresses & Skirts

I am a tall girl, no doubt about that but my go to has never been anything mini – dresses or skirts. However, once in a while, when I find the perfect length of mini be it a dress or skirt, I love to style the piece in the most classy way I can and in a way that suits my personal style and lifestyle. For the sake of all the tall girls /women out there, today, I bring you a tall girl guide to wearing anything mini. Let’s check it out. How tall are you by the way? I am 5ft.10.5 inches tall.

 

GUCCI Double G Belt – Unboxing, Review and All You Need to Know About the Product

Finally, I laid my hands on the Gucci double G Belt. As you may know already, this is NOT an exclusive product. It is quite popular amongst Bloggers, Influencers and on social media. While the Gucci Double G Belt is very popular, it is still a very stylish piece that adds a touch of elegance and lush to any ensemble. I have worn the belt twice since I got it as a gift and I can say that, I waited too long to get it. It is very beautiful on.

If you are considering getting the Gucci Double G Belt, here is the unboxing, full review and everything you need to know about the belt….

 

My Live Television Interview on TVC – Wake Up Nigeria Talking How to Use What You Have

I know many of you have read my bestselling book, “Use What You Have – How to take your gifts from potential to fulfilled purpose“. After the successful launch of the book, I knew there was more to the book than just be a book. So, with the help and direction of God, I turned the book into a digital course and then a Live Masterclass which I travelled to Lagos Nigeria to teach.  As part of our publicity for the Lagos live Masterclass, I was on TVC to share more on the book and also the live event. Below is the footage of the live TV I had with Yomi Owope – one of the hosts of Wake Up Nigeria. I had fun doing that interview…..please watch below…..

 

How to be the Best Dressed In Red Dress

The time many of us tend to fix our events or functions or occasions or get together is when the weather warms up. Now, the weather is warming up and I can see that there are many events in the line up for me – weddings, Blogger events and more…….I am sure I am not the only one…..

However, it is one thing to have an event to go to and another thing to look well put together to stand out at that event. While drafting this blog, I can’t help but to remember a quote by Coco Channel which says: Dress shabbily and they remember the dress; dress impeccably and they remember the woman. So, you don’t have to worry because on today’s post, I will share some TIPS with you on how to be the best dressed in your event….

 

Ballon Sleeves Dress ::: How to Look Good in White

I love details that take any style piece to the next level. This dress is plain, almost bland if you like but the SLEEVES did not only give them the va va voom that made the dress stand out, it is a detail that would make you stand out in any gathering. Not that I want to get noticed though 🙂 Today, I am sharing this white dress look book with you and some styling tips for your own personal style.

 

Girlfriend Jeans Again!….. How to Style the Girlfriend Jeans (Part 2)

If there is a thing like wearing something too much, then this pair of girlfriend jeans would qualify for being worn too much. Since I got them, I haven’t stopped wearing them and here we are again with another styling featuring the same jeans. Well, let’s face it, one of the reasons why I started this blog is to show you how to shop less, wear more, so you can save more……so, this post is showcasing or living that truce. Now, if you missed my post on How to Style the Girlfriend Jeans Part 1, check HERE. In that post, I shared everything you need to know about the girlfriend jeans. Without further ado, let’s check out today’s look and my styling tips for today.

 

Delayed Gratification :: How to & Advantages

A lot of times in life when we want something, many of us want it now and once we think about it, we want it at all cost.  It even gets interesting that when we achieve a goal, we believe we deserve a treat so to say and we go on and treat ourselves. Well, treating ourselves is one thing, getting that treat at the right time is another……

I had the opportunity to share with the Youths I mentor about Delayed Gratification – How to Achieve it and the Advantages of delayed gratification. This footage was a very long one but I managed to reduce it to about 10 minutes…Please watch below….

 

Work Style ::: How to Add Fun & Style to Your Work Wardrobe

 

 

Back in the day and or recently, work outfit was always those hideous skirt-suit or trouser suit. Don’t get me wrong, you can wear skirt or trouser-suit, but be mindful not to make it too “granma” if you decide to go for it. Choose pieces that fit well – this adds modern and sophistication to your look……

I am telling you, work outfit doesn’t have to be boring and for that reason, I bring you today’s outfit of the day featuring my work style.

Denim Day ::: How to Style the Girlfriend Jeans

I am trying out something new today and it is all good! It is the Girlfriend Jeans! Before now, I do not take chances with jeans in general. If it is not a very well fitted skinny jeans or boot cut jeans, I do not go near it. However, I decided I want to have more fun with jeans, so, I went ahead to order this girlfriend jeans. Guess what, since I got them, I haven’t stopped wearing them. Why did I wait till this long to try out the girlfriend jeans? So, let’s check out today’s look featuring the girlfriend jeans.